Sort through your feelings and figure out what’s your responsibility to sort through solo and what you can bring to your conversation with her. Send questions to R. Eric Thomas at [email protected] ...

But I hate feeling angry and resentful toward her, and I would love to be able to find a way to move forward and let go of ...

When I ask him about taking a trip together, he always says I should go because he is too busy and to stop being antagonistic ...

She regularly needles me about things that happened years ago, snarky comments about stupid little things I did that made her angry.

There’s a difference between being a workaholic and being a person who isn’t prepared to be an equal partner in a relationship. It seems he’s the latter and if he isn’t interested in learning how to ...

You write that you’re flattered when he spends time with you. But spending time with you isn’t doing you a favor, it’s ...

Dear Eric: I’m 51 years old. I’ve been dating “John” for two and a half years now. After a year, he moved in to help with the mortgage. Most of the time he pays but if he misses a month and I ask ...

He doesn't vacation with her, and rarely takes her out to eat. But when his parents are in town, he makes plenty of time for them.

Dear Eric: Over the last 30 some years, I have been very generous with a sibling who has never been in very good financial shape. I have sensed a certain contempt from her and her family about my ...

Dear Eric: I’m 51 years old. I’ve been dating “John” for two and a half years now. After a year, he moved in to help with the ...

In today's Asking Eric column, R. Eric Thomas responds to someone who isn't enjoying their relationship with their workaholic boyfriend.

Dear Eric: I’m 51 years old. I’ve been dating “John” for two and a half years now. After a year, he moved in to help with the mortgage. Most of the time he pays but if he misses a month and I ask ...